Hotlips001

I am a retired heterosexual, who has distinct bi- leanings. Married 30odd years to the OH, who I love dearly and wish to remain with, but who has in the last few years lost any interest in sex with me, preferring an very physical affair with a previous friend from college days. He is a BBC, named Charles, from Zimbabwe.
Because of this, I joined xHamster to widen my sexual outlook and to enjoy some of my more 'kinky' interests.
While enjoying a fairly full sex life in the past with the OH, I am interested in some of the other means, methods and perversions to gain sexual pleasure. I love a woman, so rate myself heterosexual, but do not see myself loving a man, so am not gay. I have however enjoyed sex with both sexes so consider a bisexual rating to be appropriate too.
I adore naked big boobed women, preferably strong dominant types, and am happy to watch various sexual acts between men and women being performed. I also enjoy the sight of the naked male form, both flaccid and erect, and see nothing wrong in this or in watching sexual acts with other males, gay or cross dressing, and again see nothing wrong so long as all acts are consensual.
I enjoy wearing women's lingerie, and have done so since my earliest days of sexual awareness. I enjoy others wearing such items, male or female, and adore the idea of meeting others to wear lingerie and carry out any related activity. My OH has never approved of these interests, but permits me to wear her undies and other lingerie, so long as she is not involved.
I do not wish to be a woman and could not pass for one if I tried, although I have enjoyed being taken anally while in 'feminine mode'. Wearing the frillies is entirely a sexual thing, done purely to initiate and enhance my erection and masturbation by the pleasure of restrictive undies and nylons.
I find smoking cigarettes incredibly sexual, either by any partner or on rare occasions by myself; the OH used occasionally to join me, but dropped the habit around the time she went Black. I know smoking is unhealthy, but it is arousing and I consider that it adds sexiness to any photo/video.
While I enjoy bdsm to be a little rough, I'm not fond of blood spilling or severe pain/snuff. I do prefer the ladies to apply the BDSM to us chaps, but this is by no means a fixed desire. I have no interest in 'watersports' or scat, and do not find tattoos and piercings arousing, but accept that both the latter seem to be on the increase.
I hope you readers will find something of interest in my videos, galleries and posts (all posts are 'blogs' and are true, not stories) and invite you to try commenting on my material, either via the item or in message form. I do try to respond to all comments and nothing really upsets me, the worst that can happen to you is I block you from contacting me. So why not try!!